Tuesday, March 18, 2014

Top 10 Free Apps for when you're in Crisis



1.       Sesame Street for Military Families
Helps children and families during deployments, reunions, and crisis situations dealing with having a member in the military.  This app provides a comprehensive tutorial in the beginning.  Then you can go through the different sections, such as deployments that includes coping with pre-deployment and actual deployment.  It provides videos from Sesame Street for the children to watch, which makes it age appropriate, interesting, and informative.  It helps children to understand what is happening.  There are also sections that require parental grants to access, including injuries and grief.  Again these are child age-appropriate.  I highly recommend this for all military families with children, and even is useful for families dealing with grief or injury. 


2.       M3 depression check
This app appears to be based upon the Beck’s Depression Inventory.  It invites users to take the 3-minute screener and then tells then when they’re complete the severity of what their depression could be.  It is only a screener so it cannot actually diagnose anyone with depression but may give an individual some encouragement to seek professional help. 

3.       ASK about suicide to save a life
This app is useful for anyone who may believe someone else is having suicidal ideations.  It provides warning signs, crisis lines you can call, and a simple mini-training on the “ASK” principle.  It provides a video tutorial and discussion.  This is useful for anyone in crisis or anyone who may have a friend or family member in crisis.  It does note when you open the app to always call 9-1-1 if there is an emergency.

4.       Mr. Mood
Sometimes people think they’re in crisis if they’re having a bad day.  I know sometimes I worry that a day is just the worse because everything has been great up to that point, and then it feels like it comes crashing down.  I personally use this app every day and track my moods.  It’s been helpful in noticing any patterns, and you can add notes to your mood to remember why it was a good, okay, or bad day.  The faces are pretty self-explanatory.  Then a little bow-tie pops up when you add a note.  It gives you an average of what your mood has been for the last week, 30 days, 60 days, and 90 days as well. 

5.       Disaster and Risk Reduction
(possibly a higher rating after seeing it run!)

I haven’t been able to test this app out as I have not experienced any disasters since downloading it, however it could be very beneficial.  I think this could particularly be beneficial in an area that experiences a lot of natural disasters like earthquakes or hurricanes.  I also think it could be beneficial to get alerts of something going on in an area in case you are not presently watching the news or have any contact about a crisis occurring.  This can be beneficial for anyone as it alarms you when a crisis happens.

6.       Crisis Cope
This is an awesome coping strategy for anyone to use.  If you regularly experience a crisis, you can have it available to click on in this app, and then upload different items that would improve your mood.  You can show a recorded video, play a voice message, show an image, show a camera photo, play a song, call a contact, send a test message, or send an e-mail.  These are great coping strategies for any crisis, from simple to extreme.

7.       PTSD Coach
This app was developed for trauma survivors, whether they have PTSD or are concerned that they might.  This is another coping strategy which includes contacts of loved ones, pictures that are comforting or funny, and songs that are relaxing or put you in a good mood.  You can take an assessment to assess possible PTSD.  It then tracks the assessments’ scores so you can see changes over time.  It was produced by the VA and is therefore made for veterans or active duty military, but can be appropriate for anyone possibly experiencing PTSD.  There is also a distress meter that you can rate and also track changes over time. 


8.       Crisis Corp.

This app helps you to create crisis plans.  If you find yourself in a time of crisis, you can then have a plan already in place that you already agreed upon to calm down and gain control and stability.  There are some sample scenarios and plans available.  There is also a flashlight and an alarm available if you find yourself in a dangerous situation and want to alarm the potential offender or to others that you are in trouble.

9.       Suicide Lifeguard
This app provides helpful crisis line numbers, resources, warning signs if you want to help someone in crisis, and the ability to call 9-1-1 through the app.  Obviously I would hope calling 9-1-1 would be more accessible than having to dial it through an app, but it’s at least an alternative option.  It’s not the most informative app but free and useful nonetheless. 


10.   Feeling Frenzy
This is a fun game for kids to play that allows parents/guardians to help them open up about their feelings.  It helps the kids to know what feelings are positive and negative.  You can make it interactive by asking the child to explain if they feel that way or the last time they did every time they hit a feeling, or to debrief afterwards.  As the game goes on the levels get harder so they’re bound to eventually hit a negative feeling and thus talk about it. 


Monday, March 17, 2014

Suicide Help

A crisis many families deal with, and a topic I've seen trending in the News, on Social Media, and in conversation, is suicide.  It's something I've been directly affected by in my family, and something I must constantly be aware of as a Victim Advocate and aspiring counselor.  I just wanted to offer some resources for those that may be contemplating suicide.  There is another way out that isn't permanent.  I encourage you to find help.

The national suicide hotline is: 1-800-273-8255


If you are in the Big Bend Area of Florida, call 2-1-1.

If you are an FSU student, faculty, or staff member that has been a victim, or an individual who has been victimized by an FSU student, faculty or staff member or on FSU campus, call FSUPD at 850-644-1234 and ask to speak to the On-Call Advocate.

There is always someone available to listen.  I understand life is hard, and sometimes taking your life may seem like the only solution.  But, it's a permanent solution to a potentially temporary problem.  There are people out there that want to help.  You are not alone.

Tuesday, March 4, 2014

Top 10 Websites for children and families in crisis



1.       Healthychildren.org


“Powered by pediatricians. Trusted by parents. From the American Academy of Pediatrics.”  This website offers a lot of information about healthy living, health issues, and different stages children may go through.  This can be extremely helpful regarding crisis because experiencing a health issue can lead to crisis within a family, and this gives support and good information for parents. This subsection regarding Family Life discusses families in crisis further: http://www.healthychildren.org/English/family-life/family-dynamics/pages/Family-in-Crisis.aspx  Here is a link to a resource guide that is also extremely useful: http://www.childcrisis.org/downloads/frc/resourcelist.pdf
 
2.       Child Crisis Center


“Strong families. Safe Kids.”  This website discusses different aspects of children in crisis, including how to volunteer, statistics, information, programs, and events.  It is based in Arizona so events and programs may only be relevant to those in the Arizona area, but still provides good information.  Some specific information regarding helping military families can be found here: http://www.childcrisis.org/operation-family-support/

3.       Child Welfare Information Gateway


Provided by the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, this is a resource for those in helping professions to gather resources and information to protect children and strengthen families.  Information from how to report abuse to resources for personal situations are provided.  This is a great resource everyone should be aware of to be informed about how to protect children and prevent abuse.  This website also provides a lot of information regarding adoption and foster care.

4.       Child Care Aware of America


This specific section of the Child Care Aware of America website provides great resources for those affected by crises and disasters.  Resources can be utilized by caregivers or it can be utilized by counselors and other helping professionals to use and provide to caregivers.  There are great PDFs to save and share.

5.       The National Child Traumatic Stress Network


This website discusses all different types of trauma, from domestic violence to terrorism, and goes into each trauma individually and uniquely.  It answers common problems or questions about each individual trauma and provides references and resources for each as well.  This website has amazing resources for counselor helping with children and families dealing with trauma, and I highly recommend it.  I frequently turn to this website for information or resources.  If I could give it 6 stars I would.

6.       Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHS)


This website (specifically this specific part of it) has different resources for students, parents, teachers, other caregivers, responders, and health professionals regarding trauma.  I stumbled upon this website but can already see that there are some amazing resources I can use with my clients.  I like this website because it provides great tools for anyone affected by trauma.

7.       Save the Children.


This organization advocates for children all around the U.S. and the world.  This website accepts donations to help children who may have been involved in a disaster or who are affected by trauma.  This website is more useful for those who want to get involved in child welfare and make a difference.

8.       NASP Resources


“Helping children achieve their best. In school. At home. In life.”  This part of this website provides information specifically about helping children with special needs who are in crisis.  It discusses how children with disabilities have particular triggers and cues, and breaks it down for special populations.  If you have a child with a disability or are working with children with disabilities these may be helpful resources.  You don’t see this type of information often so it is useful.

9.       The National Council on Family Relations


The NCFR has specific resources on how to talk to children about tragedies.  A crisis within families can many times be not telling the children information or fearing how they are going to react.  While the website doesn’t necessarily provide unique information, it does provide where to find all of the resources you could possibly need to talk to children about tragedies.

10.   American Psychological Association: Protecting Children From Abuse


The APA has this specific website that has all types of information on helping children going through abuse and prevention.  Additionally, on the right hand side are related links, such as what parents should know about child sexual abuse, resilience guides, effects of poverty, and children’s healthy development.  APA is very reliable and provides great information.