Tuesday, March 18, 2014

Top 10 Free Apps for when you're in Crisis



1.       Sesame Street for Military Families
Helps children and families during deployments, reunions, and crisis situations dealing with having a member in the military.  This app provides a comprehensive tutorial in the beginning.  Then you can go through the different sections, such as deployments that includes coping with pre-deployment and actual deployment.  It provides videos from Sesame Street for the children to watch, which makes it age appropriate, interesting, and informative.  It helps children to understand what is happening.  There are also sections that require parental grants to access, including injuries and grief.  Again these are child age-appropriate.  I highly recommend this for all military families with children, and even is useful for families dealing with grief or injury. 


2.       M3 depression check
This app appears to be based upon the Beck’s Depression Inventory.  It invites users to take the 3-minute screener and then tells then when they’re complete the severity of what their depression could be.  It is only a screener so it cannot actually diagnose anyone with depression but may give an individual some encouragement to seek professional help. 

3.       ASK about suicide to save a life
This app is useful for anyone who may believe someone else is having suicidal ideations.  It provides warning signs, crisis lines you can call, and a simple mini-training on the “ASK” principle.  It provides a video tutorial and discussion.  This is useful for anyone in crisis or anyone who may have a friend or family member in crisis.  It does note when you open the app to always call 9-1-1 if there is an emergency.

4.       Mr. Mood
Sometimes people think they’re in crisis if they’re having a bad day.  I know sometimes I worry that a day is just the worse because everything has been great up to that point, and then it feels like it comes crashing down.  I personally use this app every day and track my moods.  It’s been helpful in noticing any patterns, and you can add notes to your mood to remember why it was a good, okay, or bad day.  The faces are pretty self-explanatory.  Then a little bow-tie pops up when you add a note.  It gives you an average of what your mood has been for the last week, 30 days, 60 days, and 90 days as well. 

5.       Disaster and Risk Reduction
(possibly a higher rating after seeing it run!)

I haven’t been able to test this app out as I have not experienced any disasters since downloading it, however it could be very beneficial.  I think this could particularly be beneficial in an area that experiences a lot of natural disasters like earthquakes or hurricanes.  I also think it could be beneficial to get alerts of something going on in an area in case you are not presently watching the news or have any contact about a crisis occurring.  This can be beneficial for anyone as it alarms you when a crisis happens.

6.       Crisis Cope
This is an awesome coping strategy for anyone to use.  If you regularly experience a crisis, you can have it available to click on in this app, and then upload different items that would improve your mood.  You can show a recorded video, play a voice message, show an image, show a camera photo, play a song, call a contact, send a test message, or send an e-mail.  These are great coping strategies for any crisis, from simple to extreme.

7.       PTSD Coach
This app was developed for trauma survivors, whether they have PTSD or are concerned that they might.  This is another coping strategy which includes contacts of loved ones, pictures that are comforting or funny, and songs that are relaxing or put you in a good mood.  You can take an assessment to assess possible PTSD.  It then tracks the assessments’ scores so you can see changes over time.  It was produced by the VA and is therefore made for veterans or active duty military, but can be appropriate for anyone possibly experiencing PTSD.  There is also a distress meter that you can rate and also track changes over time. 


8.       Crisis Corp.

This app helps you to create crisis plans.  If you find yourself in a time of crisis, you can then have a plan already in place that you already agreed upon to calm down and gain control and stability.  There are some sample scenarios and plans available.  There is also a flashlight and an alarm available if you find yourself in a dangerous situation and want to alarm the potential offender or to others that you are in trouble.

9.       Suicide Lifeguard
This app provides helpful crisis line numbers, resources, warning signs if you want to help someone in crisis, and the ability to call 9-1-1 through the app.  Obviously I would hope calling 9-1-1 would be more accessible than having to dial it through an app, but it’s at least an alternative option.  It’s not the most informative app but free and useful nonetheless. 


10.   Feeling Frenzy
This is a fun game for kids to play that allows parents/guardians to help them open up about their feelings.  It helps the kids to know what feelings are positive and negative.  You can make it interactive by asking the child to explain if they feel that way or the last time they did every time they hit a feeling, or to debrief afterwards.  As the game goes on the levels get harder so they’re bound to eventually hit a negative feeling and thus talk about it. 


Monday, March 17, 2014

Suicide Help

A crisis many families deal with, and a topic I've seen trending in the News, on Social Media, and in conversation, is suicide.  It's something I've been directly affected by in my family, and something I must constantly be aware of as a Victim Advocate and aspiring counselor.  I just wanted to offer some resources for those that may be contemplating suicide.  There is another way out that isn't permanent.  I encourage you to find help.

The national suicide hotline is: 1-800-273-8255


If you are in the Big Bend Area of Florida, call 2-1-1.

If you are an FSU student, faculty, or staff member that has been a victim, or an individual who has been victimized by an FSU student, faculty or staff member or on FSU campus, call FSUPD at 850-644-1234 and ask to speak to the On-Call Advocate.

There is always someone available to listen.  I understand life is hard, and sometimes taking your life may seem like the only solution.  But, it's a permanent solution to a potentially temporary problem.  There are people out there that want to help.  You are not alone.

Tuesday, March 4, 2014

Top 10 Websites for children and families in crisis



1.       Healthychildren.org


“Powered by pediatricians. Trusted by parents. From the American Academy of Pediatrics.”  This website offers a lot of information about healthy living, health issues, and different stages children may go through.  This can be extremely helpful regarding crisis because experiencing a health issue can lead to crisis within a family, and this gives support and good information for parents. This subsection regarding Family Life discusses families in crisis further: http://www.healthychildren.org/English/family-life/family-dynamics/pages/Family-in-Crisis.aspx  Here is a link to a resource guide that is also extremely useful: http://www.childcrisis.org/downloads/frc/resourcelist.pdf
 
2.       Child Crisis Center


“Strong families. Safe Kids.”  This website discusses different aspects of children in crisis, including how to volunteer, statistics, information, programs, and events.  It is based in Arizona so events and programs may only be relevant to those in the Arizona area, but still provides good information.  Some specific information regarding helping military families can be found here: http://www.childcrisis.org/operation-family-support/

3.       Child Welfare Information Gateway


Provided by the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, this is a resource for those in helping professions to gather resources and information to protect children and strengthen families.  Information from how to report abuse to resources for personal situations are provided.  This is a great resource everyone should be aware of to be informed about how to protect children and prevent abuse.  This website also provides a lot of information regarding adoption and foster care.

4.       Child Care Aware of America


This specific section of the Child Care Aware of America website provides great resources for those affected by crises and disasters.  Resources can be utilized by caregivers or it can be utilized by counselors and other helping professionals to use and provide to caregivers.  There are great PDFs to save and share.

5.       The National Child Traumatic Stress Network


This website discusses all different types of trauma, from domestic violence to terrorism, and goes into each trauma individually and uniquely.  It answers common problems or questions about each individual trauma and provides references and resources for each as well.  This website has amazing resources for counselor helping with children and families dealing with trauma, and I highly recommend it.  I frequently turn to this website for information or resources.  If I could give it 6 stars I would.

6.       Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHS)


This website (specifically this specific part of it) has different resources for students, parents, teachers, other caregivers, responders, and health professionals regarding trauma.  I stumbled upon this website but can already see that there are some amazing resources I can use with my clients.  I like this website because it provides great tools for anyone affected by trauma.

7.       Save the Children.


This organization advocates for children all around the U.S. and the world.  This website accepts donations to help children who may have been involved in a disaster or who are affected by trauma.  This website is more useful for those who want to get involved in child welfare and make a difference.

8.       NASP Resources


“Helping children achieve their best. In school. At home. In life.”  This part of this website provides information specifically about helping children with special needs who are in crisis.  It discusses how children with disabilities have particular triggers and cues, and breaks it down for special populations.  If you have a child with a disability or are working with children with disabilities these may be helpful resources.  You don’t see this type of information often so it is useful.

9.       The National Council on Family Relations


The NCFR has specific resources on how to talk to children about tragedies.  A crisis within families can many times be not telling the children information or fearing how they are going to react.  While the website doesn’t necessarily provide unique information, it does provide where to find all of the resources you could possibly need to talk to children about tragedies.

10.   American Psychological Association: Protecting Children From Abuse


The APA has this specific website that has all types of information on helping children going through abuse and prevention.  Additionally, on the right hand side are related links, such as what parents should know about child sexual abuse, resilience guides, effects of poverty, and children’s healthy development.  APA is very reliable and provides great information.

Tuesday, February 25, 2014

Top 10 Twitter Accounts

I made a list of my Top 10 Twitter Accounts for Children & Families in Crisis:




1.       FSU Counseling Center

@FSUUCC
5 stars

As my audience may be more of students in the Tallahassee area, I wanted to focus on a twitter I personally follow that I believe shares good things for those in the FSU community as well as inspirational tweets to anyone outside the area.  For anyone in the Tally area, or anyone college age, this may be helpful just for daily inspiration or to know what is going on in the area.

2.       Institute for Violence Studies at FSU

@ViolenceStudies
5 stars

Another twitter group that I personally follow is the Institute for Violence Studies at FSU.  As violence within the family or domestic violence (violence among those that live together) can definitely be a crisis for a family, this twitter provides resources and information for individuals who may be experiencing some sort of violence in their home.  

3.       Children’s Commission
@JaxChildren’s
4 stars

As I aspire to move to Jacksonville and work with children there, the Children’s Commission twitter account provides useful resources for children that we adults needs to be aware of.    They specifically shared some information from UNICEF about how children handle emergencies and how we can assist (here at http://www.unicef.org/appeals/)

4.       UNICEF
@UNICEF
4 stars

Following finding the Children’s Commission’s tweets, I stumbled upon the UNICEF twitter page, which promotes the rights and wellbeing of children in over 190 countries.  The twitter account doesn’t necessarily provide much information or useful materials for those that may be experiencing a crisis with a child, rather it promotes news stories and the realities of what children across the world are dealing with.

5.       Nemours Children’s Hospital
@Nemours
4 stars

Nemours is a children’s hospital in a few areas of the country.  If you want up-to-date information on their research, what is happening through the hospital or the movements they are taking part in, they frequently tweet with updates.  I support Nemours and believe it to be a great Children’s Hospital and encourage anyone interested in working with children to follow them.

6.       St. Jude
@StJude
5 stars

I have been a long-standing supporter of and donator to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital.  A hospital that continues to research for a cure to cancer and never charges the families that enters: wow!  I never hesitate to donate to them and am constantly following their twitter page to see if they have any new findings or to read about the moving stories of the children and families that enter and leave the hospital.  Having a child with cancer takes a large toll on the entire family.  I suggest supporting an organization like St. Jude’s to help find a cure!

7.       Make A Wish
@MakeAWish
5 stars

Children with life-threatening medical conditions are getting to make wishes, wishes that come true through this foundation!  The official twitter page of the Make A Wish Foundation shows the generosity of donors, stories of children whose wishes came true, and job openings for those interested in working for the foundation.  If you have a child who has a life-threatening medical condition, I suggest looking into the Make A Wish foundation to grant them their wishes during this hard time.

8.       Kids Health
@KidsHealth
5 stars

This twitter page provides amazing resources for mostly parents (educators and counselors too) to utilize with their children, from helping their kids with self-esteem issues to how to have a healthy pregnancy.  It provides tangible resources and articles that all parents can use.  I suggest anyone who has a family or works with families to follow this twitter page so that we may all provide the best healthcare (whether personally or professionally) to our children.

9.       Rights For Girls
@Rights4Girls
4 stars

This twitter page provides great information to help prevent crises and trauma from occurring to girls.  It discusses topics from sex trafficking, to foster families, to runaways.  It is based on a Human Rights Project for Girls, gender-based violence, and its impact on young girls.  If you know of any girls impacted by violence, are a girl impacted by violence, or work with girls impacted by violence, this may be a useful tool.  It is also eye-opening and informative for anyone to read.

10.   Child Welfare League of America
@CWLAUpdates
4 stars

Based in Washington, D.C., the Child Welfare League of America aspires to protect every child from harm.  The tweets consist of typically what is going on in the government regarding protecting children and their rights.  It also discusses parenting, and frequently parenting in adoption and foster care.  If you want to stay up to date on movements within the government regarding child welfare and some resources on how to protect children from harm, the CWLA twitter page provides some good information.